6.11.2013

The Next Donald Trump

I've always been a good negotiator and am very proud of that. I got high school summer jobs for a bit more pay than my friends, talked my way into a couple better grades in college and now use this almost every day with my job. Throughout my ad agency, I'm known for being a tough negotiator and generally can get what I want, often surpassing what others have in the past. And what's weird? I love it. To me, it's a challenge and I get excited when November rolls around and we start negotiating contracts for the upcoming year.

And guess who is following in mommy's footsteps? Yep. My little non-stop talking turkey has already been negotiating with his parents and I think it's hilarious.

Examples -

{After telling him we're going up for a bath in two minutes} 
"No mommy - I want 5 more minutes".

{When it's weekend nap time} 
"Not yet mommy, not yet, play a little longer first".

{I tried to get him to take a bit of chicken before giving him another raspberry} 
"No chicken, I'll eat potatoes and then get raspberry".

{After picking out two books to read at night} 
"No mommy, I get FOUR books. 
Me: No Drew, we're just going to read 2 tonight. 
Drew: Ok, mommy read 3 then?"
(we end up reading 3. he wins)

I'm sure some parents uphold the "we don't negotiate with toddlers" theory, but I actually like fostering this assertive, smart side to him. It can't hurt to let a toddler feel the satisfaction of winning from time to time, right? Plus, he got so many of Derek's physical and personality traits that when I see something he's received from me, it makes me happy..... I mean, I was the one who spent 13 hours in labor birthing the thing.

Look out Donald Trump, this little smarty might take over your throne someday!


16 comments:

  1. That's too cute! I love a good compromise with the little

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  2. Love this! Compromising is a good thing!

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  3. Go Drew!! I was just telling my husband, Taylor tried negotiating with me this morning. Her daycare has two doors (door #4 and door #5). Door #4 is way closer to her classroom and easier for us to use, but door #5 is better parking for rainy days.

    This morning, I pulled up and as we were walking to door #4, Tay said "no mama- door five". I told her we were going through door #4 when she responded "door five. happy TeeTee."

    I almost gave in, but I didn't. She's good. Just like Drew!

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  4. How cute! JJ has a very hard time saying no to Chloe so I can't imagine once she can negotiate how that is going to go!

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  5. So cute! We're dealing with that right now too. It's so hard to say no when they say such cute things, right?

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  6. Haha he is so cute and such a good negotiator.

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  7. That's so adorable that he likes to negotiate! So far, my little one only says "no" when she doesn't like what I say. I actually look forward to a little negotiation :-)

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  8. SO presh !!! Move over Donald .. Drew is on his way .. Hugs and what a precious post

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  10. Oops I was signed into Brandon's user name.

    Anyways, that is too funny. Drew is so adorable!

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  11. Hahaha! That is too freaking cute! Sydney is the same way with neotiating. I love it at times and then sometimes it is like "No way Missy! Not happening!" lol. But I also agree with loving when you see something that you know they get from you! Sydney look so much like her daddy that when i see something of me I am just giddy. lol

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  12. Too cute! Good for you for promoting negotiating. I was just thinking about negotiating skills in the car today and how so few people even try. I remember finally building the confidence to negotiate at the West Side Market and I've never looked back!

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  13. Ha ha you've got a smart one on your hands! :)

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  14. Aww, how cute. I love these pictures!

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