5.31.2017

Trip to KC Part 2


Part 2 is mostly about the time spent with my family outside of all of the graduation festivities! We enjoyed so much time with Gramma and Poppa while we were there and can't wait to see them again in a few weeks!

Drew getting the honey out of the honeysuckles, something my brother and I grew up doing every year!


There was lots of running around the backyard with both Gramma and Poppa!




My parents have a little pond and Drew was OBSESSED with the tadpoles in there. He literally could have spent hours out there and kept saying he had to 'go science the pond'. 


So lucky to be with my mom actually on Mother's Day for once!


The boys left to get back to Kindergarten/work and Ady stayed in KC for an extra 5 days. We had to visit one of our favorite places: Deanna Rose!





I also got to meet 2 of our newest family members and Ady was obsessed with holding the littlest: Jameson. Isn't he adorable?!


And we ended our trip to one of our family faves: Fritz's. SO delicious!


A week at Gramma and Poppa wore her out!!



5.30.2017

Trip to KC Part 1


We all flew to Kansas City a couple weekends ago to watch Derek's sister graduate medical school. Super exciting but the best part? Her residency will be in Dallas and we're moving to Ft. Worth! The kids are so excited to have their aunt nearby for at least a few years! :)



 

The 3 siblings...




The walk down the hill at the University of Kansas is quite a tradition. My brother-in-law caught this shot of Whit doing just that and it's so fabulously sums up how she felt!


Had to get a family picture in front of the campanile...

 




Viva Vienna Festival


For Memorial Day Weekend we enjoyed lots of rain, some yummy grilled corn and burgers but mainly some good 'ole family time. On the actual holiday we ventured over to Vienna for their Viva Vienna festival. It was your average city fair full of fried foods, kiddie rides and prizes to be won. 



Drew got 2 out of 2 baskets for a prize...



And Ady fished for a shark for her prize...



Hope everyone else had a wonderful Memorial Day (even though this is like a week later!)




5.28.2017

Last Trip to Cleveland


Man it's stressful dealing with 3 different houses in 3 different cities. I can't WAIT until we're settled in Texas!! We had to get to Cleveland one last time a couple weekends ago since the movers only pack and move from one city. Remember we used most of our in-laws furniture here in DC so most of our belongings were in Ohio. That being said, kids toys and accessories take up a TON of room so we rented a small Uhaul to take it back. We decided we could live the last 8 weeks here in DC with very minimal toys and clothing and just spend our time playing in the city and soaking it all in a bit more. We also had to re-stage the house since we had tenants and get it ready to be listed on the market. So we spent 3 days doing just that, eating at our favorite spots there and saying goodbye to friends. It was definitely a bittersweet time!





And, of course, exhausting for the kiddos...





5.27.2017

18 Months Living With In-Laws


Here's how Derek wants this blog to be written: It was roses and peaches and was so perfectly easy! 

But my reality is just a smidge different. And let me start by saying that it really was fine. There were definitely benefits but I just think it's funny how many people have told me I deserve a medal! And do I think I do? Sure. Living with in-laws is hard no matter how much you love them. It's probably the same with living for anyone for an extended period of time... it's just HARD. 

For the first few months it was just great. There were no issues and we ventured around DC with them hitting up the hot spots and soaking it all in. The kids loved having them in the house and Derek and I loved getting out and about sans the kiddos from time to time as well. Everyone was still new to the game and it felt like we could survive.

But around half way through was when I noticed that things changed a bit. Nothing major, I mean we're all civil adults, but little things here and there that would just drive me bonkers. And I should add that the true was probably the same for them! I'm sure I did things that they thought I was crazy for, I don't deny that! I mean, it had been like 10 months living with the in-laws. And we were only half way. 

It was around 12-14 months that I started to get antsy. We were doing less and less with them on the weekends as we really enjoyed just our little immediate family unit. But I was still able to focus on booking everything that came my way with full time care for Ady, Derek and I were enjoying nights out on the town with free babysitters and they got bond for 18 months with the kids.  And It was a mutually beneficial deal with them living essentially for free. We were all just ready for change. And for our own space in our own houses. I sometimes felt like I had to walk on eggshells and began to long for time with just the 4 of us. I know they looked forward to the day it was just the 2 of them as well.

And then 18 months came. Would I do it again? No. But did it work out for everyone involved for 18 months? Sure.  Would I suggest anyone living with in-laws for that amount of time? Probably not. But, then again, would I suggest living with anyone other than immediate family for that amount of time? Nope. We've been in DC without them for a few weeks and I've enjoyed the time with just the 4 of us. And it's easy. We can be 100% ourselves again. 

I'm sure they'll read this and think I'm ungrateful and by no means is that the case. Again, both parties benefited and it worked out finding a house with 2 master suites on opposite ends. #winwin! It worked out and for that I'm grateful. And to walk away with no resentment or strain on the relationships is yet another positive in my opinion! But it was pretty hard (naturally.... and for both parties involved) and maybe I do deserve a medal. 

But so do they. :)




5.09.2017

House Update


Headache city is finally started to simmer down a bit. We are officially home owners in Texas and the in-laws are back in KC until late June we they come back to DC to move their stuff (more thoughts on that coming soon). Now we just have to get our Ohio house sold. Which, actually, we're in an AWESOME position for as Derek's job purchases the house at appraised value if we can't sell it after 30 days on our own so I really shouldn't be stressed, was just hoping to get a bit more than appraisal.

Anyway, let me back up a bit on the Texas house just so I remember how stressful the whole thing was years down the road. Derek and I took the kids down to Texas a few weeks back and met my parents who drove down from KC. We toured tons of houses and drove by tons more narrowing down where we wanted to be and the neighborhoods we'd like to land in. Eventually we found one that was perfect so we put an offer in. Long story short, another offer was accepted so we left the city knowing we had a couple of months to keep looking for what we wanted. We had already done tons of research on schools and kinda new the general areas within the city we wanted to be so this trip more narrowed down to actual neighborhoods. The one we settled on most is new, young and awesome!

The issue with Texas is the reputation that you can purchase 6,000 square feet for like $500K. Unfortunately that's not how it is anymore and we've had several people explain how the market picked back up a few years ago. Sure you can get cheap housing but it's in terrible school areas. And sure it's not nearly as expensive as DC obviously but in the good school districts you get about half that square footage for around a half a mil.

Which, quite frankly, no one is complaining about as that's plenty of room for our 2 kiddos and 1 furball! Anyway, a few days after being home I posted in a mommy group that we joined saying we're looking and if anyone has their house coming on the market soon to let me know. You've got to suck them up FAST in the North Fort Worth area! A few hours later a mom messaged me saying her original offer might fall through and if we were interested in the specs. They fit our needs perfectly and so we requested the zillow link. It was perfect. Sure we wanted a few hundred more square feet and Derek wanted his 3 car garage but it was definitely priced to move quickly and who knows if our next home was going to be a forever home anyway! Their house was taken off the market and was going to be put back up in a few days so we asked if our realtor could get in to take a peek before it went back up.

After tons of texts and emails they said they would let us in the next day to see the house and Derek and I decided to book a flight to get me down there. He hated the idea that we'd put an offer on a house that we hadn't seen in person so I agreed. I rented a car, stayed at my girlfriends house in Dallas and was literally in the city for less than 24 hours but it was perfect for us. A larger lot than most others (still small since the DFW area apparently doesn't have big yards anywhere), only a few years old and well maintained inside with an area off the playroom we could finish out for even more play space!

So we put an offer in, it was accepted, the inspection was done and our requests were agreed too, the appraisal came in good for us and we're basically done! EEK! Super exciting and glad we have a place to come home to when we move in June!

Here's a picture from the inside to show how open it is! It's not my dream white kitchen but nothing was. Seriously... Texans like their darker wood. :)


Will post more pictures once we're inside!

5.04.2017

First Trip to Ft. Worth


To say the last few weeks have been a whirlwind is an understatement. At one point, for about 6 days, I had a headache behind my eyes that would NOT go away. I think as far as stress, this has been one of the most stressful times in my entire life. Selling a house in Ohio while living in DC while buying in Texas while trying to move some stuff to Ohio so the official movers actually do that work while shooting lots of spring families has proven to be too much for me. And buying a house in another city that you haven't been to in years is definitely stressful by itself! Researching schools, looking at test and college entrance scores while figuring out proximity to Derek's office, etc, etc!

Anyway, to back up a bit, we got down to Texas as soon as we could after Derek received news he got the job! (Which, did I mention, 13 total applicants put in for so I'm SUPER SUPER proud of him!) We were down there for a week and my parents drove down from Kansas City to help watch the kiddos while we house hunted with the realtor all day. It worked out perfectly and I'm so grateful for them doing that!

We did also squeeze in some fun at the stock yards and ate at Joe T. Garcia's.... an AMAZING Mexican food restaurant! We also found a cute little church with an Easter egg hunt followed by a great service and then enjoyed Easter brunch at Cheesecake Factory! Here are some shots from our trip...



The kids LOVE hotel rooms because they get to jump on the bed!


But they also did a lot of TV watching...



And naked running around with towels as capes...


 
 


One evening we drove over to Dallas to see our friends and their 2 boys...


 Easter morning...


 







It was crazy stormy while we were there so we were glad we had an indoor pool...


And then we ventured to the Ft. Worth museum as well...



We'll definitely be regulars at the Ft. Worth Stockyards once we move...






But we were glad to be heading home after a week!