
I've posted
here before about my internal struggle to decide if working or staying home with Drew was the best option for us. Ultimately, working won that battle leading to the next hardest decision as a mother;
where to send your child to daycare. My perfectionist self is currently transitioning Drew to his 3rd daycare here shortly and I vow to not stop until I find the best group of people that I can. I HOPE that I'm done and this new school is our home, but we'll have to wait and see!
I began researching locations only a few months into my pregnancy calling around asking for child/teacher rations, educational activities, teacher retention and so much more. I ultimately really like a school about 2 minutes away that seemed to have it made and to top it off, they even had a wait list of about 7 months. That can only mean it's a great school, right? I soon found that they really didn't have a wait list and just liked to 'look' more enticing telling pregnant mothers that there was a wait, yet they always had a spot 'open' up
right before the mother came off maternity leave. That factor didn't bother me too much as the main two teachers in the room loved Drew and he seemed to always be happy there.
Fast forward until he was about 9 or 10 months old. The facility was behind a bit on moving kids up and it was looking like he wasn't leaving the infant room until he was about 13-14 months despite it really being for kids 12 months and under. That was frustrating as the amount of space in the infant room was TINY. Granted he was a late walker, but we're talking kids crawling on top of each other. On top of that, the 12-18 month room teacher had just left and I wasn't the most fond of the new, cold teacher who would be with my child 8 hours a day.
I then considered a Montessori school as Derek and his siblings were all brought up this way and loved it. I found what I thought was a great group of people at a school about 15 minutes away. I dreaded having to jump on the highway each day but the place was clean, filled with toys and seemed to have a great energy. It was all fine and dandy in the beginning until I began to see things that I wasn't really pleased with. I felt my blood boil as I would hear a teacher utilize an extremely stern voice with a child and really didn't like that a couple of the best teachers were leaving. I didn't agree with them letting sick children back into school so quickly and it seemed a lot of the 18 month room teachers were not really interested in doing anything other than sitting and watching the kids play around them. Knowing Drew was moving to the 18 month room soon I weighed my options (
again) for his future.
And then the call came.
It was from a catholic school right down the street with whom we'd been on the waiting list for almost a year! One of our friends had recently moved her son there and they love it. And I loved it last year, but figured we'd never make it there knowing there was a looooong wait. When my mother in law and I took the tour it just seemed so incredibly wholesome and education-focused. The Sister who runs the place has kept it a well-oiled machine filled with teachers who have been there forever and families who don't ever want to leave. With a ratio even better than the last two places, the proximity being wonderful and genuinely loving people on the staff, I know this will be the best option for Drew. Although it's even pricier than the last school, the money I'll save on gas should make up the difference and, quite frankly, the cost is a low priority on the totem pole. Also, if we end up in Cleveland for longer than expected, it's the private preschool and kindergarten we wanted him to attend anyway. Score!
I'm honestly hoping this is it. I don't like moving him around as he does get attached to teachers and routines, but I feel confident that this place can provide a better education, more love and a lot more quality attention for our son than the last two. I can't wait to get him settled in and making friends that he'll grow with over the next few years. Fingers crossed we have found our weekday 'home' for Drew as I don't think Derek will let me move him again!