8.14.2014

What's In A Name (part deux)


You can find the post about Drew's name here.


Settling on a girls name was much harder than Drew's. We had loved Andrew for a boy for years before even conceiving the kid and despite exploring tons of other names, we kept coming back to it. For Deuce, we literally had lists and lists of girls names. Derek and I would text a new name almost daily and really didn't finalize Adalyn as the name until about a month before she was born.

Reasons why we love this name for her:
     - It can be shortened to a nickname just like Andrew. She will go by Ady.
     - It begins with A. Although we weren't only looking at names starting with A's, we think it's adorable.
     - It's somewhat of a classic and elegant sounding name to us just like Andrew.
 
We are also somewhat big on the meaning behind names. Adalyn means 'noble and kind' which we hope she'll be someday. Andrew means 'strong and manly' so they even kinda go together.

Now for the hard part; the middle name.

Derek always wanted our first born son to carry his father's name and because we're both traditional, that happened. If our second child was a boy, I was dead set on the middle name being Lawrence after my father. But then we found out she was a girl. {cue the misery of months of internal debating... seriously months}

Here's what cycled in my head daily.

In order to honor my father since I've always been a daddy's girl and Derek's dad got Drew, I was going to go with Adalyn Lawren (pronounced Lah-wren, not Lor-ren, with the emphasis on wren) which I loved. But then, if it was about who I was closest to in our family, and who she would be closest to in the long run, that would be my brother. So then I wanted Adalyn Ryan (Ryan is his middle name). Super cute right? But then I thought my mom would be crushed if I went with a boy name instead of just going with one of her names. For a while, I was then set on Adalyn Marie. Marie is my middle name, but also my mother's first name (Mary) in French, which she studied for years. So in a way, it would be a piece of both my mother and myself. But then I was back to the fact that I was a daddy's girl meaning I was back at the start of this paragraph. #superstressful

If you asked me on any particular week which one I was set on, it would change often. I struggled and struggled with it, but ultimately chose to go with Lawren. This was partly because I'll always be a daddy's girl, but also because everyone who ever comes in contact with my father ends up loving him. He is always making others laugh and doesn't have a mean bone in his body. It would make me so proud to see Ady grow up a people pleaser and always happy just like my father.

The final touch to her nursery below thanks to TweetHeartWallArt on etsy. Sunny is the owner of this shop and she's super sweet to work with and has some awesome decals. Go check her out!




21 comments:

  1. I love reading about how names are made and I think you made a very beautiful choice. If Alex were to be a girl, Ryan for a girl's name was at the top of our list!

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  2. I love the meaning behind her name! :)

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  3. I love the process behind choosing names.
    Love her name - LOVE!

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  4. Very sweet name :) Our second is Adelle June (both family names) and we called her Addie June for her first couple of years, but it has now been shortened to AJ (which I don't love nearly as much, but I guess it just suits her because that's what comes out!). I love hearing about how names came to be :) Thanks for sharing!

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  5. Ugh names are so tricky! Especially when you want to honor someone in the fam by naming your baby after them! Your choice is beautiful!

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  6. And here I thought her middle name was an homage to the land of chickenhawks! ;)

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  7. I love her name and the meaning behind it. Nice job, you two!

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  8. Love the name Adalyn and Adeline! I wish I could use the name Adeline for a future girl, but we have an Evangeline so I think they are spelled too similar.

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  9. oh I loved this! What a process it is naming a little human being. You want it to be perfect! I wish we had a fun story for Aria Finley, but we just finally FINALLY liked a name together =)

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  10. I love this! I've wanted to do a post for a while on why we picked the names we did for our twins, and you've inspired me to do it. It's a beautiful name, and I loved reading how you chose it. :)

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  11. Beautiful! I love the meaning behind the middle name and you're right, Adalyn is classic and elegant. I've heard the name here in Iowa a couple times in recent years - 2 for sure, plus my sister in law's grandmother's name was Adelaine (hmm, that spelling doesn't look right, but I know it's pronounced the same as Adalyn but spelled differently). Great name! (Again, don't reply, you're busy!)

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  12. I always love finding out why people choose the names they do. I think you made a great choice and I'm a big fan of using meaningful/family names as middle names. My son's middle name is my husbands first name and also his father and grandfather's middle name so it's been passed down.

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  13. I absolutely love her name!!! I love unique names but also that her name has meaning behind it!

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  14. Love it!! I totally agree that girl's names are much harder. (We) I had a name for a boy already selected before I was pregnant as well. Girl names were super tough and we decided to go with Zoe (meaning: life) and middle name: Tamara (my BFF). I didn't want any family name, so neither family is upset.

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  15. Love the sentiment behind her name. Beautiful name for a beautiful baby!!

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  16. I love her name so much!! I agree about girls names being tough. I was glad my 2nd was a boy so I didn't have to find another girl name!

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  17. It's a goregeous name! 😉

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  18. I love it! And I love that your kids' names sound cute together!

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  19. Her name is beautiful, but naming your child/ren is SO tough! it turned out great though!

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