9.16.2013

Bad Things Come in 3's


Remember when I told you on Friday that I had burned my arm last week in the oven?

Sorry for the not-so-purdy pic again!
Well what I didn't tell you is that the next day I was rear-ended at Drew's daycare. I was backing out, almost identical to what happened last year at a different daycare, and another mom behind me threw her car in reverse and backed out quickly, only to bump me. Thankfully the impact was at only a few mph and no one was even remotely hurt, but I just can't seem to win with daycare parking lots.

What frustrates me the most is that I back out and drive in daycare lots SUPER slow. I have this huge fear of children around my SUV and refuse to even go normal speed. Apparently, however, people must think I'm not even moving with how slow I am going and back out themselves. It's a lose/lose I tell ya.


And then I remembered that all bad things come in 3s. All weekend I was super careful when I was carrying Drew, or cooking, or driving, or doing anything where I could fall or worse.

But I failed to realize that sometimes the worst things can happen silently and without your knowledge.

Around 2pm yesterday, I jumped on the computer to send a quick work email and happened to check my aol spam folder where I saw that I had a purchase from etsy. Curious, as I hadn't remembered ordering anything the day before, but had a couple things I was planning to order this week, I clicked on the link.

It was an order confirmation for an etsy charge of $1,460.

My eyes teared up, my gut wrenched and I ran outside to get Derek. We quickly called my credit card company which, thankfully, with fraud protection coverage is handling the situation and not holding me responsible for any of it. Whew, right?

Nope. It didn't stop there. The person(s) actually hacked my etsy account entirely meaning they now had my credit card number (it was shut down before any other charges could be made), my address, my full name and my aol address. And stupidly, I use the same password for both of those so they now had access to my aol account entirely.

I quickly changed the aol password, but logged on this morning to see that I was wiped clean. Nothing, I mean nothing is left. No saved emails, no outgoing emails, no contacts. It's all gone. So guess what aol? I'm done with you. It's been a long ride, but I'm moving on and using my gmail account moving forward.

Still with me? Good because I want to help you! One thing that aol doesn't have, that gmail does, is a two-step verification. Essentially, to log on into your account, you have to have a code texted to your phone. So my password is now changed and I have been logged out of everything everywhere. When logging back in, I have a code texted to me which is then used once and destroyed. I'd strongly suggest that you go turn it on with your accounts as well!

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26 comments:

  1. Ugh!! What a crappy week!! I am so sorry-- that Etsy/AOL fiasco sounds especially awful! I just don't think about criminals haunting Etsy, you know? I mean...convenience stores...electronics stores...sure! Monogrammed tote bags and personalized Tervis tumblers, though? Didn't see it coming. :( I'm glad you hopefully got most of it worked through.

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  2. Ugh, what a pain in the butt. I'd bawl if I lost all of my emails and contacts from over the years. I love my gmail acct for sure - I don't have dbl verification, but I do keep an entirely separate password for that acct than I use for everything else, just b/c I'm afraid of this exact thing happening!

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  3. That sucks!! How stressful all of this must be at once. It makes me so mad that people are so evil out there to try to take what others have worked hard for. Credit cards are usually really on it and takes care of it but it's still really stressful and makes you feel so vulnerable. Hope the rest of the week gets better.

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  4. Oh no!!! :( I hope your week gets better, so sorry.

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  5. Hoping your back luck is all behind you now! How annoying about getting hacked, that's happened to me twice in this past year, I'm on my 3rd credit card, what a pain!

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  6. so good that you caught the purchase email - I think I would have just thought it was spam! hope things will get better now.

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  7. sweetie hugs to you I'm so sorry hope this week is better

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  8. SO SOrry for the string of bad things, they do definitely come in sets. I'm glad you were able to get everything all worked out for the most part though

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  9. Oh my gosh how crazy! You weren't kidding about bad things coming in threes, and them being absolutely horrible. So glad that you were able to get things squared away with your credit card. That definitely sucks about your e-mail being wiped clean though. Hopefully you have tons of good luck coming your way!!

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  10. Holy Smokes! Yes, hoping for a better week for you!!

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  11. Geez, so sorry about it all, especially the hacking incident. :(

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  12. Ugh. How absolutely awful. Hoping things improve from here!

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  13. Wow, that sucks so bad :( But it can only get better from here, right?!!? Here's hoping, at least! :)

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  14. So glad the credit card company isn't holding you responsible. But still! That will make your heart drop to your stomach. Sorry that happened!

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  15. Oh man .. that is horrible. Thankfully the credit card companies have gotten really good at taking care of these kinds of issues without too much hassle to you. I had to go through all that when my purse and wallet were stolen. Never any fun.
    Hope this week is much better for you.

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  16. Oh my gosh, nooooo!
    This week has to be shaping up to be better. It just has to.
    Hugs!!

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  17. What a rough past week! This week has no choice but to be better! :)

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  18. Oh girl that stinks...I can't believe this all happened to you..and an Etsy account of all things!

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  19. wow that sucks! glad that you got everything figured out though!

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  20. What a pain in the a**! That burn looks bad, hope it's healing ok by now. And what is it with your luck and daycare parking lots? Glad no one was hurt though and the damage looks minimal. And it sounds like you were on top of everything with your Etsy account, but I know how annoying that can be to make sure you've changed all necessary passwords and such.

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  21. praying for some good fortune to come your way! We had something similar happen to our ebay account, twice, it was nuts.

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  22. What an awful week! So sorry. Can't wait for this link up, such an awesome idea!

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  23. oh my, girlfriend - sounds like you had a pretty horrific week. I hope that means the worst is over and things will go smoothly too.

    And boo to AOL. You'd think they would have better protection against things like that.

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  24. All of these are bad but holy crap about the etsy thing!! I hope you get everything all figured out!

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  25. Ugh! What a bad week. Glad that it ended at three things and not anything else! Hope all is much better now!

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